Motherhood, Marriage,
and the Invisible Load
EPISODE 11:
An Honest Conversations on Sharing the Weight with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
In This Episode:
Today we’re joined by Dr. Morgan Cutlip — relationship expert, psychologist, and author of How to Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself and A Better Share. We’re talking about the invisible weight of motherhood: the mental load.
Dr. Morgan breaks down what the mental load really means and why one of the hardest parts is explaining it. She shares how to get on the same page with your partner without turning it into a fight, and how to visualize the load so it’s easier to communicate.
We discuss why this burden often falls on women and how to build natural check-ins with your partner as life changes — because the load shifts every day. Dr. Morgan also shares what women want most: partners who anticipate needs and show appreciation, and how to invite that change without resentment.
We wrap up with a conversation about mom guilt, the slow erosion that can happen in relationships, and how to stay connected through the chaos. Dr. Morgan reminds us that it’s okay to take the moment you need — because knowing and asking for what you need is one of the healthiest things you can do for yourself and your family.
Dr. Morgan Cutlip
MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODES’S GUEST
Dr. Morgan Cutlip is a psychologist, relationship expert, and mother of two who has spent over 15 years helping people navigate the complexities of love, family, and modern motherhood. Having grown up in the field of relationship education alongside her father, Dr. John Van Epp, founder of Love Thinks, Morgan has dedicated her career to translating psychological research into practical, relatable tools for everyday life.
After experiencing firsthand how easily mothers can lose themselves in the chaos of raising young kids, Dr. Cutlip made it her mission to help women protect their well-being while nurturing their families. She’s the creator of the My Love Thinks blog, the Love Thinks Podcast, and multiple online courses and guides, including The Mother Load. She’s also the author of two books: How to Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself and A Better Share. These empower parents and couples to build stronger, more connected relationships without burning out.
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